{"id":2270,"date":"2020-07-02T21:55:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T19:55:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/?p=2270"},"modified":"2022-11-15T20:36:52","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T18:36:52","slug":"042020-learning-to-love-you-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/2020\/07\/042020-learning-to-love-you-more\/","title":{"rendered":"042020: Learning to Love You More"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2271\" src=\"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/juni-2020.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of a street light during blue hour\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/juni-2020.jpg 700w, https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/juni-2020-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/juni-2020-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/juni-2020-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We stumbled into the exhibition by accident. And as we didn\u2019t have any plans, we decided to put our masks on and have a look around. The gallery showed a collection of installations and sculptures, mostly focussed on internet art, and the artist\u2019s exploitation. When we walked through the rooms, passing by a giant print of Alex Tew\u2019s Million Dollar Homepage, I saw it in a corner: A tiny desk with a laptop, showing the website\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/learningtoloveyoumore.com\/\">learningtoloveyoumore.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Learning to Love You More<\/em>\u00a0was an interactive project by Miranda July and Harrell Fletcher that ran until 2009. The website listed a number of assignments that people could fulfill and send in their results, which were then exhibited on the site. 39: Take a picture of your parents kissing. 35: Ask your family to describe what you do. 66: Make a field guide to your yard. 5: Recreate an object from someone&#8217;s past. I knew this site! When we were teenagers, me and my friends did some of the assignments, and they can still be found online. I had totally forgotten about the site and how much joy these tasks and perspectives brought to me. Asking my parents to kiss for a picture was weird and memorable. I actually enjoy creating those kinds of moments. Rediscovering the website on the tiny desk at Kunstraum Kreuzberg reminded me about it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Right now, it\u2019s 9.55pm, I am sitting in my living room. As I turn my stiff neck towards the window, I catch the blue hour; tinting the house across the street in a tender blue, almost purple color. It\u2019s not going to last long, I can see it passing by. Like most summer evenings. Like me cycling through Weserstra\u00dfe, on my way home from a dinner with a friend. That\u2019s when I usually catch the blue hour, too. All this won\u2019t last long: The people sitting outside their Sp\u00e4tis, drinking beers, the kids running around with their dogs, the warm air and me and my bike: This is what we longed for the whole winter, and realizing every year anew that it\u2019s worth the wait \u2014 It\u2019s an easy thought, and I like it. I like\u00a0<em>easy,<\/em>\u00a0sometimes.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>One thing I am trying to learn is to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CBWQq-QnShK\/\">smile in pictures<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>One thing I already learned is that I don\u2019t need to please everybody all the time (cool!). Now, however, I am scared that people might not like the new Me who doesn\u2019t want to be liked by everybody. It\u2019s a vicious circle.<\/p>\n<p>On a bit more light-hearted note: I went looking for the best-designed watering can out there and wrote a little\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/2020\/06\/ueber-design-giesskannen\/\">design critique<\/a>\u00a0(in German).<\/p>\n<p>And to stop blathering about Corona in this newsletter, I wrote a Corona diary for German\u00a0<em>form<\/em>\u00a0design magazine, which you can\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/form.de\/products\/form-288-krise-und-design\">buy here<\/a>. The current issue deals with Crisis and Design, and I can highly recommend ordering it!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s my\u00a0<em>Learning to Love You More<\/em>\u00a0assignment to you:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/6LLl2tvQel0dJiTLQpTAUE?si=cJEtPsO4RVO25izpav-KSw\">Educate yourself<\/a>\u00a0on your internalised racisms. Fight them. Keep on learning and strengthening your senses; speak up, and learn\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1zh6reFJWkZRGBL5iIezTfA2tkKBB3X9JcMh2QYT8tWk\/edit\">what to do\u00a0next<\/a>\u00a0\u2013 Hire black illustrators, for example.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/matty_huynh\/status\/1269244326015651840?s=20\">Here is a list<\/a>\u00a0to get started with. In between, you can put the phone or computer away and go outside. Cycle through summer, because as we all know: It won\u2019t last as long as we\u2019d like to.<\/p>\n<p><em>If you enjoy content like this: I send it out as irregular) monthly newsletter called\u00a0<\/em>Christel\u2019s Corner<em>.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tinyletter.com\/christowski\">Sign up for it here<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We stumbled into the exhibition by accident. And as we didn\u2019t have any plans, we decided to put our masks on and have a look around. The gallery showed a collection of installations and sculptures, mostly focussed on internet art, and the artist\u2019s exploitation. When we walked through the rooms, passing by a giant print <a href=\"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/2020\/07\/042020-learning-to-love-you-more\/\" class=\"more-link\">&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">  042020: Learning to Love You More<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1206,1200],"tags":[44,41,40,3,2,43],"class_list":["post-2270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christels-corner","category-gefuehlslagen","tag-christels-corner","tag-english","tag-newsletter","tag-schreiben","tag-text","tag-writing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2270"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2274,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions\/2274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christowski.de\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}